men have to deal with women who never call back after sex or a lesser hookup either. it happens a lot, men just don't talk about it because it's: 1. seen as u

men have to deal with women who never call back after sex or a lesser hookup either. it happens a lot, men just don't talk about it because it's: 1. seen as unmanly to not have a women want to sleep with you again 2. seen as manly to not want to sleep with her again anyway for the two somewhat paradoxical reasons above, men just don't talk about it in open conversation very much. either way though, outside of serious relationships i'd say that 20% of the men are having 80% of the sex. the rest are either pretending or just don't participate in dating/hooking up. this is the cruel reality of modern dating. nobody feels sorry for guys, either, especially not women.