You've it the nail right on the head there. Unfortunately "forced" violence seems to solve many situations. I wouldn't fight for the sake of fighting. When I u

You've it the nail right on the head there. Unfortunately "forced" violence seems to solve many situations. I wouldn't fight for the sake of fighting. When I used to go clubbing there were a couple of instances where some drunken guys would kick off on me, I attempt not to fight every time, it's hard to talk a drunken mess out of a fight, but if an attack is thrown at me I'll fight back, solely to knock them down in defense and walk off. I forgot to mention I started following Ju-Jitsu so that if I was thrown somewhere I could land safely. I now use it to defend myself or friends if we find ourselves in a situation like that. It's happened only a couple of times thankfully.