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wow, you are clueless. Approaching someone and engaging in conversation with them out of potential interest in who they are as a person is nowhere near the sam

• coldtea 14y ago
  >wow, you are clueless. By all means, enlighten me. >Approaching someone and engaging in conversation with them out of potential interest in who they are as a person is nowhere near the same thing as making offhanded remarks on their physical appearance without so much as an introduction. Sure, you need an introduction. I'm not talking about crash pickup lines or jerk behaviour. But if you like the other person, why would you say anything less in a tech conference that what you are OK to say in the park or the library or wherever? Plus, this isn't 1950 Sunday school. People don't just like each other because of a "interest in who they are as a person". People can _also_ like each other on the physical level, and/or have one-night-stands and the like. And modern people don't find anything wrong with that. >get it together. May I suggest you avoid making offhanded remarks about me as a person such as the above?