Your examples are all cases where someone creates social stress by reacting poorly to avoidable, stressful situations. Your goal seems to be to hire people tha

Your examples are all cases where someone creates social stress by reacting poorly to avoidable, stressful situations. Your goal seems to be to hire people that will put up with these avoidable stresses. My goal is to build an mature workplace where we avoid creating unnecessary social stresses by applying collective wisdom and experience to plan ahead. This is one of the many difference between engineering and hacking.