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If someone put themselves between you and something you want via a lie, calling them out is actually the last option you have. While speaking of "lesson"... the
by PavlovsCat 14y ago
If someone put themselves between you and something you want via a lie, calling them out is actually the last option you have. While speaking of "lesson"... the captain couldn't make eye contact and the FA hid away; let's hope they learned their lessons; actual ones worth talking about.
- vacri 14y agoYou can draw attention to the issue without impugning the character of the person in the way. Even saying "that's not true" is better, since it doesn't unambiguously assign a negative motive.
- PavlovsCat 14y agoOf course it would have been better to say it differently; that doesn't make what he said instead a justification for what happened, or that it would have changed anything.
- emn13 14y agoAlso, by that point his fate had probably been decided, and he might as well make his point and confront them. Perhaps they'll feel guilty; or perhaps others present will remember to push back more a little earlier.