So by this definition, the OP is a liar because he accused the FA of being intentionally deceptive? I assume he can't read her mind. Anyway, this is all a bit

So by this definition, the OP is a liar because he accused the FA of being intentionally deceptive? I assume he can't read her mind. Anyway, this is all a bit too meta. It sounds like a huge misunderstanding and an awkward and somewhat confrontational social situation to me.