I find that the social bullies and self appointed dictators in social groups often try bully people into submission by shaming them for not complying with "what

I find that the social bullies and self appointed dictators in social groups often try bully people into submission by shaming them for not complying with "what is good for the group". Such cowards are often hiding behind the well being of "the people" and try to make non-comformists look bad. Because if you aren't doing what is good for "the people", you somehow must be evil. Well guess what, you don't owe people shit and they don't owe you shit. You are not responsible for other people unless you are in charge of them, working for the common goal or unless they're your family members. Your classmates are none of these things and you owe them absolutely nothing. It's funny the way bullies will often be the first to betray the group and how it's suddenly "every man for himself" when shit hits the fan.