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>My empirical observation is that when a few women join a male professional setup, sexists jokes quickly vanish, not because people don't dare cracking them, bu

>My empirical observation is that when a few women join a male professional setup, sexists jokes quickly vanish, not because people don't dare cracking them, but because they don't feel the need to tell them anymore (IMMV). It nevertheless remains half of a vicious circle keeping women out of some career paths, to the detriment of both genders. Except there are women attending these conferences. Being frustrated about something doesn't make it okay to do something which hurts people and expresses a prejudice. I am personally very frustrated when it comes to women, but it doesn't make it okay for me to try to bully them, because that is what this is plain and simple. Funny how many meandering explanations/justifications are sat in this thread. Quite depressing.

fab13n 14y ago
> Except there are women attending these conferences. The "joker" vents out his frustration, fed by a male daily work environment, in a gender-mixed conference. The result is event more detrimental than when such attitudes are displayed in front of a 100% male attendance indeed. > Being frustrated about something doesn't make it okay [...] I did most certainly not write, nor imply, that it was OK. I just didn't insist more on how bad it was, because there's only so much beating a dead horse can take, and because I didn't think I had anything constructive to add to this truism. > Funny how many meandering explanations/justifications are sat in this thread. Quite depressing. I'm afraid you're getting confused between explanations and justifications; that's probably one of the causes for your depressed feelings.
- singular 14y ago
  > I did most certainly not write, nor imply, that it was OK. I just didn't insist more on how bad it was, because there's only so much beating a dead horse can take, and because I didn't think I had anything constructive to add to this truism. Sure, I apologise for implying this was your personal opinion, however the strength of my tone is based on the fact that some will use your observation as an excuse. > I'm afraid you're getting confused between explanations and justifications; that's probably one of the causes for your depressed feelings. Actually I feel fine, a figure of speech :-) the problem is that many will use these explanations as a justification, the gap between the two isn't very far.

fab13n 14y ago

> Except there are women attending these conferences. The "joker" vents out his frustration, fed by a male daily work environment, in a gender-mixed conference. The result is event more detrimental than when such attitudes are displayed in front of a 100% male attendance indeed. > Being frustrated about something doesn't make it okay [...] I did most certainly not write, nor imply, that it was OK. I just didn't insist more on how bad it was, because there's only so much beating a dead horse can take, and because I didn't think I had anything constructive to add to this truism. > Funny how many meandering explanations/justifications are sat in this thread. Quite depressing. I'm afraid you're getting confused between explanations and justifications; that's probably one of the causes for your depressed feelings.

singular 14y ago
> I did most certainly not write, nor imply, that it was OK. I just didn't insist more on how bad it was, because there's only so much beating a dead horse can take, and because I didn't think I had anything constructive to add to this truism. Sure, I apologise for implying this was your personal opinion, however the strength of my tone is based on the fact that some will use your observation as an excuse. > I'm afraid you're getting confused between explanations and justifications; that's probably one of the causes for your depressed feelings. Actually I feel fine, a figure of speech :-) the problem is that many will use these explanations as a justification, the gap between the two isn't very far.