That confuses 'why the attack works' with 'why the attack was chosen'. If I wanted to harass a female, I would probably choose sexual shaming as a weapon, beca

That confuses 'why the attack works' with 'why the attack was chosen'. If I wanted to harass a female, I would probably choose sexual shaming as a weapon, because it is obviously one of the most effective weapons available to me, because society is sexist. I would be morally reprehensible for choosing to harass someone, but my motivation for harassing her would not necessarily be sexist. Perhaps she ran over my cat, I believe she did it on purpose and want to punish her. The attack would work because our culture is rife with sexism. The attack was chosen because I'm angry with her for killing my cat: not because I'm sexist.