tl;dr So many variables it is impossible to give you good advice without a lot more information (some of which is probably sensitive). Anybody who pretends othe

tl;dr So many variables it is impossible to give you good advice without a lot more information (some of which is probably sensitive). Anybody who pretends otherwise is lying. The generic advice you get will be stuff you've probably heard already or common sense. Best generic advice: Imagine you are in your employers position, and figure out what the best possible outcome you can get is by giving him/her one or two concerns at most.