> ...is blaming her discomfort/fear on her because she isn't interested... No, it's not. You misread my comment. > You didn't even reject the behavior, you ju

> ...is blaming her discomfort/fear on her because she isn't interested... No, it's not. You misread my comment. > You didn't even reject the behavior, you justified it. HN is large enough now that I can't expect you to know that I've never done any such thing, and in fact have said exactly the opposite pretty frequently.