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"It boils down to this: I wish that when I was 18 someone told me college wasn't the only option." Yes, but even still, that's a decision that no one but you e
by jonnathanson 14y ago
"It boils down to this: I wish that when I was 18 someone told me college wasn't the only option."
Yes, but even still, that's a decision that no one but you ever could have made for yourself. There's no shame in dropping out of college (or even being forced out) and going on to have a kick-ass career. The stories of Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, et al., can attest to that. But even those guys went to college at first, before realizing that it was slowing them down or sidetracking them. It's hard to say if they would have had that self-knowledge without trying out college first.
Even if someone had told your 18 year old self that college wasn't your only option, you probably wouldn't have believed him. The idea of college-as-necessity is so firmly ingrained in our national culture that only an unusually self-actualized 18 year old would know, right off the bat, no experience required, that it wasn't for him.
- wfunction 14y agoYou might want to reconsider the Bill Gates example, given that he says: “I didn’t leave college because it wasn’t suited to me. I left college because I thought I had to move quickly on the Microsoft opportunity. I had already finished three years and if I had used my AP credits properly I would have graduated. [...] I am as fake a dropout as you can get.” From: http://www.forbes.com/sites/luisakroll/2013/01/31/bill-gates-says-there-is-something-perverse-in-college-ratings/ http://www.forbes.com/sites/luisakroll/2013/01/31/bill-gates...
- sunnybythesea 14y ago+1 There really is fine line between dropping out to go "towards" something and dropping out to "get away"