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Feeling down == feeling emotional discomfort of even pain within the body. Negative thoughts fueling this pain, but I gave up trying to "think myself out" of n
by gesman 14y ago
Feeling down == feeling emotional discomfort of even pain within the body.
Negative thoughts fueling this pain, but I gave up trying to "think myself out" of negative moods long time ago.
"Doing yourself out" of negative moods doesn't work either - as it just temporarily distracting, but not resolving inner pain.
So the best solution I found is dealing with feelings and emotions directly.
The way it works as follows:
When you feeling down/negative/depressed - locate exactly in your body where you feel these feelings.
Usually they occupy areas of abdomen, chest and sometimes back, neck or larger areas.
Once located - start watching/observing these areas. As masters say - shed the light of your conscious attention to your feelings, without any attempt to change them or get rid of them.
At the same time - and it's important - start consciously breathing and follow your breathing.
So the practice is - watch your feelings exactly where they are and following your breathing.
This will start dissolving emotional pain directly without any thinking.
This technique helped me a lot.
- xijuan 14y agoOmg, you must have learned mindfulness meditation!