Well many people don't know what that great thing is, and never find it. Many feel they ought to want to do great things even if they don't really (if they coul

Well many people don't know what that great thing is, and never find it. Many feel they ought to want to do great things even if they don't really (if they could let themselves be free to think about it) and so are caught up in the game and setup to fail. And our society is setup to tell you that luck has nothing to do with it. Our heroes are idolized as self-made people. And if you had only tried hard you actually might have made it. But you didn't. And why not? Well actually, despite overtones of meritocracy and that failure is ok and you can start over and remake yourself, the true message of our culture is that you either got it or you don't. Witness the obsession with the young founder. He's got it. Made millions in months. Why can't you? Because you don't got it.