Of course it's not possible to arm every potential rape victim and say "now it's on you!". But it's either something you choose to do, or something you don't.

Of course it's not possible to arm every potential rape victim and say "now it's on you!". But it's either something you choose to do, or something you don't. You don't tell them what they should have done to prevent it. But when someone does prevent it, do you tell them they shouldn't have had the ability to?