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Many people have just followed all their lives and that's what they like to do. working out what works for you is just fine. go for it. but using pseudo-psyc
by andrewcooke 14y ago
Many people have just followed all their lives and that's what they like to do.
working out what works for you is just fine. go for it.
but using pseudo-psychology to put down people you don't understand is not so cool. there are plenty of valid reasons people don't want to do what you do (one may be to avoid passive-aggressive snarks like this...)
- SatvikBeri 14y agoNotice that Lucadg said nothing negative in his post. Perhaps you are projecting?
- Lucadg 14y agoI was just stating a fact. Most of the people find it easy to follow and hard to take the lead. I did not imply this is wrong (I apologize as actually I was not so clear about it) but if you are someone who likes to start something and share it with others, as I do, the sooner you realize this the better. You leave the frustrating "let's do this together" phase and go into the "I'm doing this, I'll be happy if you join in!" phase, which is so much better. My theory is that if you give the impression that you won't do it alone, it means you are not so sure about it and the project inspires less confidence. Of course there are things you just can't do alone, but you can start alone and see who joins. I strongly agree with the OP because it's a major shift in one's life. Very precious.