I think that friends always bailing on you is a sign that you are boring. Reading this article reminded me of this quote from Anne Lamott: "There are certain p

I think that friends always bailing on you is a sign that you are boring. Reading this article reminded me of this quote from Anne Lamott: "There are certain people whose company you love, whose mind you love to pick, whose running commentary totally holds your attention, who makes you laugh out loud. When you have a friend like this, she can say: “Hey, I’ve got to drive up to the dump in Petaluma—wanna come along?” and you honestly can’t think of anything in the world you’d rather do. By the same token, a boring or annoying person can offer to buy you an expensive dinner, followed by tickets to a great show, and in all honesty you’d rather stay home and watch the Jello harden."