And with this everyone should learn something and move on. The lesson by the way is not that you can make callus comments and get away with it unless its picked

And with this everyone should learn something and move on. The lesson by the way is not that you can make callus comments and get away with it unless its picked up by a large social site. The online distribution effect is very real http://users.rider.edu/~suler/psycyber/disinhibit.html http://users.rider.edu/~suler/psycyber/disinhibit.html and you can really damage someones self esteem, so be careful. Heather its up to you to forgive him now. I totally understand if you don't want to, but considering forgiveness is more about making yourself feel better I would really consider doing it. BTW I say this having just gotten a heap of email abuse from someone because I refused to write a captcha decoder for them and instead suggested they read the article I wrote which had the answers. Even knowing the above it still it still hurts, and I am generally rather thick skinned.