Some people choose to stop fighting, gain a few weeks or months of reduced pain and better (temporary) health, and settle affairs as best they can. Remember, if

Some people choose to stop fighting, gain a few weeks or months of reduced pain and better (temporary) health, and settle affairs as best they can. Remember, if chemo doesn't work, then it is a longer, more painful demise. It's a hard tradeoff. Maximize the quality time you have, and prepare for your family's future -- especially before the diagnosis comes.