What about the people who know you? People who never interact with you in the flesh don't care if you have a girlfriend, but the people you actually see on occ

What about the people who know you? People who never interact with you in the flesh don't care if you have a girlfriend, but the people you actually see on occasion will eventually expect to see her. You will get caught by friends and relatives. And you may laugh and explain what you're doing, but even as you explain people are going to think "What a loser!"