I'm definitely calling you an asshole too and a very big one at that. You're tone (in your very post here) isn't acceptable at all. People bullying youngsters

I'm definitely calling you an asshole too and a very big one at that. You're tone (in your very post here) isn't acceptable at all. People bullying youngsters (I'm in my 40s, thank you) by telling them they're "just a number", "your lot in life is too walk on your toes", "your are a nothing", "what you've delivered doesn't count", etc. are assholes. And it's a fact. And just like the other poster here (pekk), I pitty people who have you "above them" in any hierarchy because you're personality is seriously disturbed to say such things. Don't try to justify the behavior of your post. Talking like that about people isn't acceptable. That's why you get insulted openly as being an asshole: you begged for it. I pitty your wife too: it's a major pain to live with cocksure people who know it all and who feel superior. I had a friend like that (I can't stand him anymore) and after a few years she demanded divorce. Good luck in life (I leave you the last word because seen the discussion and you're type of personality you're obviously the kind of person who thinks he always has the last word) but remember: karma's a bitch.