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I don't know what the typical HN user looks like, but anybody can work at being attractive regardless of their career or interests. It's sort of a self-fulfill
by artursapek 14y ago
I don't know what the typical HN user looks like, but anybody can work at being attractive regardless of their career or interests.
It's sort of a self-fulfilling role anyway. Staying away from an attractive woman makes you the loser. Having the mindset you just described does as well.
- ahh 14y ago"self-fulfilling role" is another term for "blaming the victim." You know, that guy in a wheelchair could totally walk--he just doesn't want it enough.
- artursapek 14y agoOk, well if you find your ability to appeal to women comparable to a paraplegic's ability to walk then I am truly sorry. Certain things like attractiveness do come with effort.
- ahh 14y agoIt is easy for the attractive to say that; like most traits, people don't like to believe dumb luck helped them. It makes a much better personal narrative if it was their own hard work. That doesn't mean it's backed up by any fact.