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The primary thing that stands out to me here, and what I believe is the main point of the TC post, is that edw and others clearly have very interesting 'before'
by intenex 14y ago
The primary thing that stands out to me here, and what I believe is the main point of the TC post, is that edw and others clearly have very interesting 'before' and 'after' posts.
Before:
"Aaron should man up, take responsibility for his actions, and pay his own bills."
Then:
Aaron can't pay his bills, decides to take one form of responsibility and kills himself.
Now:
"OH NO!
Stunned & heartbroken."
"Thank you, Cory. This wonderful post will bring understanding (and maybe even comfort) to many of us who are sad and confused today.
It will also probably save some lives."
It's not that Ed is to blame for Aaron killing himself, it's that there's a marked change in sentiment and sympathy after his death.
Did it really have to take Aaron killing himself for us to change our sympathies towards him? It seems not many of us really cared that much until he hung himself - and now we can't stop talking about him.
So the point I'd like to make is there's something wrong with a world that only cares after you kill yourself. Maybe Aaron even made the right choice is this is really how it works. Otherwise he might have quietly lived out his 50 years in prison and died later and no one would have given a shit the entire time. At least now this is getting some attention.
- Mz 14y agoIn most cases, people simply don't know how bad it is or can't imagine it could be that bad or have no idea how to help, etc. It makes me crazy and I wish the world were better about such things. Yes, it took his death for people to "care", because his death was clear information about how very bad it was. People are still talking in part to try to figure out how to see it more clearly beforehand next time and not have to wait for such a clear signal. At least I hope that is part of the motive, for some people.