Agreed. Ed should bear none of the responsibility for what happened to Aaron - this was an unexpected and tragic outcome to a desperately sad situation. But Ed

Agreed. Ed should bear none of the responsibility for what happened to Aaron - this was an unexpected and tragic outcome to a desperately sad situation. But Ed and others around here do need to take responsibilty for the comments they write - they heavily influence the nature and tone of the discussions around this precious corner of the Internet and Ed was misguided to post in such black and white terms. It would be nice to hear Ed say that he called it wrongly.