It's not the employee's responsibility to stay away from your wife. It's your wife's responsibility to not sleep with other people and your responsibility not t

It's not the employee's responsibility to stay away from your wife. It's your wife's responsibility to not sleep with other people and your responsibility not to give her any reason to. I've never understood the Hollywood story of wife cheats on husband, husband beats up her lover. As far as you know he wasn't even aware she was married. In this case clearly he was aware it was your wife. Would it change the story if she was your girlfriend instead of your wife? Your x-wife? Your x-girlfriend? I'd say effectively since she had the affair she already was your x-wife. Do the circumstances matter? If he she had left first then later started a relationship with this guy would that change how you feel? If he'd never met your wife while you were married and then met her without knowing she was your wife would that change things? I'm not suggesting you shouldn't feel upset or want to fire the guy or get him to leave. You feel how you feel. All I'm suggesting is other ways to frame the issue that might subtly change your P.O.V.