We're talking about sexuality in the sense of the physical sex of your partner; not your fetishes. Unfortunately that's a difficult topic to avoid since we can

We're talking about sexuality in the sense of the physical sex of your partner; not your fetishes. Unfortunately that's a difficult topic to avoid since we can hardly start referring to our partners as 'it' when the topic comes up. Choosing to answer vaguely and switch the topic is the easiest way for gay people to get out of these issues, but it is also how you end up staying in the closet to a lot of people. This article talks about choosing, in those situations, to not closet yourself and let the conversation flow as though the sex of your partner were a normal thing, knowing full well that it isn't for many people.