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Consumerism dominates our culture. I used to think that pertained to the United States the most, but it is a global issue. I have not had a job since March of
by fumar 14y ago
Consumerism dominates our culture. I used to think that pertained to the United States the most, but it is a global issue.
I have not had a job since March of 2012. You could say I lost my consumer power. I have made very few purchases outside of utilities, food, and other basics. It has been an eye opening experience to my own habits.
At first, I felt lost and out of touch with society. I could not make purchases like my friends and family. I did not have any new toys to show off or new clothing to wear this year. This past holiday season was the worst. As much as I disliked the holiday spending spree every year, being left out feels strange. The feeling that arises from lack of consumption is strange. It is as if society fixates on purchases and those purchases define your life(create milestone). I have not had any of those recently.
Today, I feel normal. Sometimes, I lust for new gadgets. But, most of the time, I never think about buying "stuff." If I was not in a committed relationship, I would be happy not being an avid consumer.
Maybe, it is just my brain adapting to the circumstances.
*My girlfriend, buys lots of things, she works in retail. I am not completely out of the consumption sphere.
- swlkr 14y agoHow do you afford your utilities, food and other basics without a job? Freelance?
- fumar 14y agoTwo big events happened before I left my job. My car was taken from me, insurance labeled it a total loss. I received money from that. I was also hit by a car while riding my bike. This also provided me with some money. This money, has run out at this point. I have done some freelancing for people, graphic design. I also help my girlfriend run her dog treat business. Arrfscarf.com But most importantly, now that I have no income, she has been a huge help. Even, when I go back to having spending power. Being jobless for over 8 months has given me a different perspective on consumption.
- zanny 14y agoI'm an out of college CS grad that just hasn't been hired yet, but I didn't work some soul crushing service job in the meantime. I get what you are saying, though. Christmas was kind of awkward, I ended up spending more in a month than I did the rest of the year just to appease relations. I've done freelance IT and did some community service since I graduated, but nothing making real buck. My total income in 2012 was like $6,000.
- snogglethorpe 14y ago> But most importantly, now that I have no income, [my girlfriend] has been a huge help. Ah, you must play bass...
- fumar 14y agoI wish I played an instrument. I intern for startup in Chicago. We help nonprofits receive donations. Zealousgood.com
- grecy 14y ago> At first, I felt lost and out of touch with society...... Thank you for that perspective. It's extremely interesting to hear, and I hope others can experience the same. If you are enjoying it, I suggest you go and live outside America for a few years. There are many developed countries that don't focus on consumerism like America does.