I'm not that bitter; just using a negative experience to counter the original point. Yeah, you'll probably never hear me say a positive thing about my ex, but

I'm not that bitter; just using a negative experience to counter the original point. Yeah, you'll probably never hear me say a positive thing about my ex, but at the end of the day people don't stick together for 4 years if its all bad. Also that last point is largely a myth in my opinion. Finding the (a) right person is hard for everyone. Some of us are significantly more awkward about it than others, but I don't really believe posting in niche tech sites alone is in any way representative of that.