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> The article doesn't even talk about the real lesson here: be careful who you trust. If you can't trust someone not to secretly record you having sex and then
by king_jester 14y ago
> The article doesn't even talk about the real lesson here: be careful who you trust. If you can't trust someone not to secretly record you having sex and then posting the video on Facebook, then you shouldn't be having sex with them. The lesson has always been the same, and there have always been people who don't learn it until it's too late.
The issue here is that trust is impossible to judge in this context. Sexual violence and intimidation is has deep cultural roots in the US, changing that culture is key to reducing incidents of that violence and bullying. Most sexual assault is committed by someone the victim already knew and 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in their lifetime, so trust is not enough.
- pdonis 14y agoThe issue here is that trust is impossible to judge in this context. No, it isn't. It may be difficult, but it isn't impossible. And it would be easier if people were taught that trust is something important that should not be given lightly. It would also help, as has been commented already in this thread, if the people who abuse trust were publicly shamed, instead of the people whose trust they abuse.