This would be a problem if GMail was the only means by which to contact people. It's not. You have a choice to use email. The truth is, when you contact some

This would be a problem if GMail was the only means by which to contact people. It's not. You have a choice to use email. The truth is, when you contact someone, you don't know what is happening to that information. Gmail, if anything, makes it more clear than most other means of communication.