Regardless of adjective, the choice to characterise children as baggage indicates the mindset of the writer. If you don't want to be involved in the responsibi

Regardless of adjective, the choice to characterise children as baggage indicates the mindset of the writer. If you don't want to be involved in the responsibilities of raising children, make sure your filter has "no kids" set. If you can't set a filter because you are so desperate for any contact that you "cast your net wider", the problem is you. Feature, not baggage. Unwanted feature? Filter out the undesirable profiles.