at least quote him right he said extra baggage. We all carry around these traits that define our lives, our jobs, family, hobbies, the list goes on and on. In

at least quote him right he said extra baggage. We all carry around these traits that define our lives, our jobs, family, hobbies, the list goes on and on. In this case when you date someone (man or woman) who has a child it creates boundaries on a potential relationship. An imperfect example would be the adult w/o a child likes to take last minute trips (it is something they do enough, and they are not willing to give it up at this time) maybe reluctant to date another adult who has a child because they would presumably not be able to partake in this cherished activity.