You're right, but I wish you weren't. It's a classic case of tragedy of the commons. Spamming is individually optimal, but highly detrimental to overall outcome

You're right, but I wish you weren't. It's a classic case of tragedy of the commons. Spamming is individually optimal, but highly detrimental to overall outcome as the signal to noise ratio drops through the floor. The worse the signal to noise ratio the more people need to spam to get a hit. At this point OKCupid is just one massive cesspool of copypasta flying around at great volume.