Well, I'm not speaking to cultural norms or "repression". I should have been clearer. If you, the abstract you, wants monogamy, you ought to seek it out and neg

Well, I'm not speaking to cultural norms or "repression". I should have been clearer. If you, the abstract you, wants monogamy, you ought to seek it out and negotiate the situations that arise. Monogamy itself is a perfectly valid "need and desire" of certain people. There is nothing inherently problematic about it in and of itself.