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You're doing it wrong, skim a bunch of profiles and copy and paste short messages with very slight variations. Investing time in a first message, hell even read
by andrewvc 14y ago
You're doing it wrong, skim a bunch of profiles and copy and paste short messages with very slight variations. Investing time in a first message, hell even reading a whole profile on an online dating site is a huge waste of time. Also, stop being so picky.
- dusing 14y agoI agree for the most part. You can be picky once you actually get a response. Start with a wide net of needs. Age range, body type, kids
- potatolicious 14y agoYou're right, but I wish you weren't. It's a classic case of tragedy of the commons. Spamming is individually optimal, but highly detrimental to overall outcome as the signal to noise ratio drops through the floor. The worse the signal to noise ratio the more people need to spam to get a hit. At this point OKCupid is just one massive cesspool of copypasta flying around at great volume.