I hear you on the prevalence of spousal abuse. There was a report of it at an apartment complex we were living at. Police came knocking hard at the back door wh

I hear you on the prevalence of spousal abuse. There was a report of it at an apartment complex we were living at. Police came knocking hard at the back door which we never used and which had bikes leaned against it from inside. I couldn't get the door open all the way, and my wife was barely visible back behind me. The cops became very aggressively agitated and unbelieving when I told them it wasn't us that they were looking for. They only left after we got the door open, and I agreed to let them talk to her in a different room from me.