If you've ever watched Jerry Springer/Ricki Lake/Montel Williams etc, I think the phenomenon is expressed something like: Audience member: "You should have don

If you've ever watched Jerry Springer/Ricki Lake/Montel Williams etc, I think the phenomenon is expressed something like: Audience member: "You should have done X" Messed up person on stage: "You don't know me! You don't know me! <Louder> You don't know me! You don't know!"