There are several red flags for me in this post. For example: I could never say anything bad about her. (How could I? There's nothing bad to say.) I'm sure s

There are several red flags for me in this post. For example: I could never say anything bad about her. (How could I? There's nothing bad to say.) I'm sure she's a nice person, but no one is perfect. My concern when I hear someone say something like this is that they're in denial about the things they don't like about their partner; and those things will pile up, since they're not getting dealt with, and one day the dam will burst and all those things will spew forth. I am not saying he shouldn't stay with her, but as others here have commented, it would be a very good idea for him to be in therapy. This is going to be a bumpy ride at times, and he is going to have to understand himself better so he can be there for Sally.