my parents did put some restrictions on mine at first, but they weren't hardly enforced, so gradually, I felt that they weren't restrictions, they were guidelin

my parents did put some restrictions on mine at first, but they weren't hardly enforced, so gradually, I felt that they weren't restrictions, they were guidelines, and I should follow them myself, gradually, the timing thing didn't stick, I still call friends at 0200 at night, but only when I know, that it won't make me loose on my commitments the day after. in the end, I can cut those restrictions, not at the cost of things that are a good for me, but for the cost of things I can do without once or twice, like 1-2 hours of sleep, which I can just cover up later.