Please don't refrain yourself of posting things like this because jerks poninted their snarky guns at you, just ignore them. By doing that you achieve two grea

Please don't refrain yourself of posting things like this because jerks poninted their snarky guns at you, just ignore them. By doing that you achieve two great things. First, you help people who genuinely need your caring comments on real world experience. Secondly, you don't feed attention whores. Great post by the way. You saved me weeks of hair pulling by showing that once you achieve the right mindset this problem, like any other, can be realistically managed. Finally, have happy new year!