You are the one that stated absolutely you shouldn't listen to random opinions, with rhetoric such as "If he _wants_ other people's opinions, he'll ask for them

You are the one that stated absolutely you shouldn't listen to random opinions, with rhetoric such as "If he _wants_ other people's opinions, he'll ask for them" and "developers can also intend for their software to be "widely-used" but only if it's _in their own terms_."