.. then you post about it to HN and have a handful of comments insist that it's not happening at all. Well this is part of the problem. You weren't clear. You

.. then you post about it to HN and have a handful of comments insist that it's not happening at all. Well this is part of the problem. You weren't clear. You weren't clear in a way that other people asked you politely to clear up. You turn around and accuse them of their own sexist behaviors. When I read your initial description, it sounded like dozens of incidents that I have been party to when groups create documents.