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I'm convinced children are one of those things that one is never "ready" for. I was an only child with very limited access to young children even into my 20's.
by supercanuck 14y ago
I'm convinced children are one of those things that one is never "ready" for. I was an only child with very limited access to young children even into my 20's. I always was averse growing up to other people's kids, never wanted to touch or hold them and was convinced I didn't want them either. It wasn't until I obliged my wife that we had them. There are plenty of times it is a struggle but I echo the sentiment that until you've experienced that unconditional love, you haven't fully lived. That isn't a judgement on those who choose not too, because, I too was one of those people looking at the crying kid on the airplane with disdain, but, no question, kids changes your whole outlook of the world.
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- nobodysfool 14y agoNah, I was ready for children 3 years ago, just hadn't found the right woman until two years ago. Now I'm the proud parent of a 1 year old. I never wanted to have kids until about 3 years ago. I knew I wasn't ready then. Our kid wasn't an accident, she was planned, and I am glad that our plan worked out. She's a delight, and I love every minute that I spend with her. The decision to have a child isn't about vanity, or narcissism. You have to put up with being kicked, vomited on, abused and hated when you become a father / mother. That comes with the territory. You have to put someone above yourself, and it really is a humbling experience.
- AndrewDucker 14y agoI wasn't ready for a kid until I spent some time around my nephew when he was born. Acclimatisation is a wonderful thing.