You are mostly correct, but no rule exists in absolution, and my words while harsh are neither snarky nor clever. I really am hoping my comment reaches that cu

You are mostly correct, but no rule exists in absolution, and my words while harsh are neither snarky nor clever. I really am hoping my comment reaches that curious soul, because I really believe kindness alone is insufficient given the context and behavior. Their failure is a failure of expectation. The way to correct for poorly aligned expectations is harshness, otherwise known as tough love. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tough_love https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tough_love