I would heartily suggest a cleaning service. This actually solved the largest problem in my marriage. As it turns out we live busy lives, hate cleaning, and h

I would heartily suggest a cleaning service. This actually solved the largest problem in my marriage. As it turns out we live busy lives, hate cleaning, and hate living with the mess. Once we got a cleaning service, we stopped fighting about cleaning - and since that was pretty much all we fought about - we stopped fighting. Really freaking fantastic. Some relationship problems really do have simple fixes. And for some of us cleaning services border on magical.