well, i don't feel like a loser. but then i've never thought of comparing myself using $$ job and status. i'd suggest growing up a bit. get some more perspec

well, i don't feel like a loser. but then i've never thought of comparing myself using $$ job and status. i'd suggest growing up a bit. get some more perspective on life. do something different. broaden your outlook. you might also consider counselling. perhaps there are "issues" about trying to please parents or whatever. what i'm saying is that what's broken is not how you evaluate yourself (winner or loser), but that you're actually doing the comparison at all. people are different. value different things, want different things, care about different things. you can't put them in a line.