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https://x.com/Aella_Girl/status/1874676723910098955 https://x.com/Aella_Girl/status/1874676723910098955 24 showers and 71 crying sessions in a year. That lifes

https://x.com/Aella_Girl/status/1874676723910098955 https://x.com/Aella_Girl/status/1874676723910098955 24 showers and 71 crying sessions in a year. That lifestyle doesn't seem particularly healthy...

happytoexplain 7d ago
What's the intent of this comment? Edit: I.e. are you implying something about the submitted writeup? Or just demeaning her? Or something else?
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- olalonde 7d ago
  She looks depressed.
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hax0ron3 7d ago
Having a crying session every 5 days doesn't seem very healthy to me, but showering once every 2 weeks might be fine. I've gone many days without showering many times in my life and nothing bad ever happened to me as a result. I'd usually shower before going out and interacting with people, but when sitting at home there just never seemed to be any point to it. And Aella's showering habits haven't stopped her from reaching her goals, so it doesn't really matter.
- tkel 7d ago
  It's actually unhealthy that you think it's unhealthy to cry regularly. Perhaps you have trouble processing your emotions and just bottle them up instead, causing them to leak out in other situations or lead to outbursts?
  - jawilson2 7d ago
    Here, I was going to say it's actually unhealthy to shower twice a month. This is some super-power nose blindness.
    - MrDrMcCoy 7d ago
      Not necessarily. Lots of variable factors play into how often a person might need to shower. Temperature, humidity, how prone you are to sweating in general, diet, hormonal balance, skin microbiome. Some months during a dry winter where I'm not doing much, I won't need to shower more than once a week to look and smell decent. When I spent a July in Cambodia, it was multiple times per day. When I was a kid, I barely sweat and once went nearly a month before I or anyone else noticed. As an adult, that is no longer possible. There's a guy who discovered a bacterial culture that works better than any deoderant, and for him eliminated the need to use soap on the hair or body. He still showers and uses soap on his hands, but reported that his hair and skin have been so happy and healthy that soap no longer made any sense. Dig into A2-Biome if you're curious.
  - hax0ron3 7d ago
    I should clarify. I don't think it's unhealthy to cry every 5 days. I think it might be unhealthy to have the sort of mental state that makes you want to cry every 5 days. It's the underlying psychological situation that might be unhealthy, not the outlet of crying.
  - olalonde 7d ago
    I haven't cried in years and no outbursts... What makes you cry so often?

happytoexplain 7d ago

What's the intent of this comment? Edit: I.e. are you implying something about the submitted writeup? Or just demeaning her? Or something else?

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olalonde 7d ago
She looks depressed.
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hax0ron3 7d ago

Having a crying session every 5 days doesn't seem very healthy to me, but showering once every 2 weeks might be fine. I've gone many days without showering many times in my life and nothing bad ever happened to me as a result. I'd usually shower before going out and interacting with people, but when sitting at home there just never seemed to be any point to it. And Aella's showering habits haven't stopped her from reaching her goals, so it doesn't really matter.

tkel 7d ago
It's actually unhealthy that you think it's unhealthy to cry regularly. Perhaps you have trouble processing your emotions and just bottle them up instead, causing them to leak out in other situations or lead to outbursts?
- jawilson2 7d ago
  Here, I was going to say it's actually unhealthy to shower twice a month. This is some super-power nose blindness.
  - MrDrMcCoy 7d ago
    Not necessarily. Lots of variable factors play into how often a person might need to shower. Temperature, humidity, how prone you are to sweating in general, diet, hormonal balance, skin microbiome. Some months during a dry winter where I'm not doing much, I won't need to shower more than once a week to look and smell decent. When I spent a July in Cambodia, it was multiple times per day. When I was a kid, I barely sweat and once went nearly a month before I or anyone else noticed. As an adult, that is no longer possible. There's a guy who discovered a bacterial culture that works better than any deoderant, and for him eliminated the need to use soap on the hair or body. He still showers and uses soap on his hands, but reported that his hair and skin have been so happy and healthy that soap no longer made any sense. Dig into A2-Biome if you're curious.
- hax0ron3 7d ago
  I should clarify. I don't think it's unhealthy to cry every 5 days. I think it might be unhealthy to have the sort of mental state that makes you want to cry every 5 days. It's the underlying psychological situation that might be unhealthy, not the outlet of crying.
- olalonde 7d ago
  I haven't cried in years and no outbursts... What makes you cry so often?