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I've never understood why people would continue to care so hard when their efforts are unappreciated. But I've also never worked at a large company.

jltsiren 18d ago
Do you exercise because it makes you stronger and faster? Or because it's something you enjoy, and it also keeps you healthy? Many people get satisfaction from doing their job well. From their perspective, if they are already happy with what they have, why would they make themselves unhappy by constantly pursuing more?
- djmashko2 17d ago
  For me - I don’t enjoy it personally.
jacobolus 17d ago
Some people have the primary goal of making things work for everyone. Other people have the primary goal of personally benefitting. These are often in conflict. The better a company or team can align these goals, the more effective it is, and the more everyone tends to benefit, but in many organizations the folks looking for personal advantage are most likely to end up in charge.
pixl97 17d ago
These people exist all over the place and they are the reason why society generally works. Shit would, and shit does go sideways when they stop doing their jobs, small and big companies alike. >why people would continue to care so hard when their efforts are unappreciated. So quite a few marriages.
Brian_K_White 17d ago
It's because being rewarded is not the primary reason they do anything. It's a component and it's nice, but it's not the definition if life and existence.
toomuchtodo 17d ago
Because it’s how the brain is wired. Some are wired to not give AF, some are. Doesn’t take much to figure out who is who.
sharts 17d ago
You never understood why some people are not grifters?
AndyNemmity 17d ago
I've been at the top of the org chart. I hated it. I intentionally decided to go back to engineering. "Appreciation" in this case means, promotions. I don't want them, and would actively change jobs if you forced it on me. So I am more than happy to just do a great job at my job. I do not desire or want anyone to notice me in any particular way. I want to be paid a reasonable amount, and make sure everyone that uses anything I touch is happy with the experience. That's a great life. I don't understand why anyone would think that caring about things matters at all. There's a massive difference between your users, and peers appreciating you, and management appreciating you. Management doesn't know anything. Why would I value their appreciation? I care much more about my intelligent peers, or even commenters here, than what a non technical person thinks.

jltsiren 18d ago

Do you exercise because it makes you stronger and faster? Or because it's something you enjoy, and it also keeps you healthy? Many people get satisfaction from doing their job well. From their perspective, if they are already happy with what they have, why would they make themselves unhappy by constantly pursuing more?

djmashko2 17d ago
For me - I don’t enjoy it personally.

jacobolus 17d ago

Some people have the primary goal of making things work for everyone. Other people have the primary goal of personally benefitting. These are often in conflict. The better a company or team can align these goals, the more effective it is, and the more everyone tends to benefit, but in many organizations the folks looking for personal advantage are most likely to end up in charge.

pixl97 17d ago

These people exist all over the place and they are the reason why society generally works. Shit would, and shit does go sideways when they stop doing their jobs, small and big companies alike. >why people would continue to care so hard when their efforts are unappreciated. So quite a few marriages.

Brian_K_White 17d ago

It's because being rewarded is not the primary reason they do anything. It's a component and it's nice, but it's not the definition if life and existence.

toomuchtodo 17d ago

Because it’s how the brain is wired. Some are wired to not give AF, some are. Doesn’t take much to figure out who is who.

sharts 17d ago

You never understood why some people are not grifters?

AndyNemmity 17d ago

I've been at the top of the org chart. I hated it. I intentionally decided to go back to engineering. "Appreciation" in this case means, promotions. I don't want them, and would actively change jobs if you forced it on me. So I am more than happy to just do a great job at my job. I do not desire or want anyone to notice me in any particular way. I want to be paid a reasonable amount, and make sure everyone that uses anything I touch is happy with the experience. That's a great life. I don't understand why anyone would think that caring about things matters at all. There's a massive difference between your users, and peers appreciating you, and management appreciating you. Management doesn't know anything. Why would I value their appreciation? I care much more about my intelligent peers, or even commenters here, than what a non technical person thinks.