Ever since http2 and especially http3 (my god did that take years to reach the mainstream), I've been sad to see intermediaries like Cloudflare gobbling up all

Ever since http2 and especially http3 (my god did that take years to reach the mainstream), I've been sad to see intermediaries like Cloudflare gobbling up all the newest protocols and ciphersuites and etc while open source lags behind. The separation has reached years, there's years between new security measures implemented by Cloudflare and when it'll be available to independent server operators. It is getting progressively harder to stay current because you are fighting against an entity with vastly more resources and with far more of an incentive to remain the easiest way to get there. With Cloudflare you get all the latest http server protocols and versions, all the latest everything ciphers TLS everything, and all in exchange for letting them MitM your traffic. I've leaned on them myself too because there is just no way to get that stuff for myself these days. h2o was the only readily available http3 software for years.