Yes. Usually when programming one encounters problems that are solved elegantly by introducing abstraction. The parent argues that doing this too eagerly result

Yes. Usually when programming one encounters problems that are solved elegantly by introducing abstraction. The parent argues that doing this too eagerly results in a big mess that should be avoided by being cautious with abstraction. I argue the converse, being too cautious with abstraction can result in a big mess and you should be eager to abstract. Of course there is a golden path in the middle, but it is closer to my side ;)